At last something not related to hot girls or Asian talent. This post will actually be valuable for you Asian Guys wondering how to date white girls or just any girl in general. It is pretty rare to see a White girl with an Asian guy. I can say that fact is true even living in the San Francisco Bay Area, where interracial dating is common.
Here is a small glimpse about myself. I will write my full story out one day, but not today. I want to inform blog readers that I do not know what it is like to grow up surrounded by other Asians, even though I am mostly Vietnamese and 1/4 white. I still understand and know the frustrations of the Asian-American culture pretty well because I had to deal with it growing up and I’ve made more Asian friends. I was raised in a predominantly white suburb and do not see me being Asian as a limiting belief, however when I was younger I did. A limiting belief is something that we see is hindering us at the success we want, even though in reality the belief is not even true.
When I was younger back in elementary I believed that being Asian was the main reason why I was not popular in school and the main reason why my 3rd grade crush didn’t like me. As I went on to middle school I knew it was not the case at all; it was me as a person and my personality. Since I had no Asian friends I did not end up with the typical Asian male belief stystem. Most Asian guys have a limiting belief about themselves that because they are Asain they can’t get white girls. I did not adapt the limiting belief that being Asian was holding me back. I accepted the fact that me as a person is holding myself back from the success I wanted.
Once a person accepts the fact that who they are as a person, not by what they are is holding them from the success they want. The person can decide on how to become successful with what they have and grow as a person, like myself and many others.
In order to have the type of success you want with white girls as an Asian guy you need to get rid of the limiting belief that being Asian or a minority is holding you back from the success you want with women and in life. The belief that being Asian is not attractive is holding you back. I know it’s easier said than done but I will show you how to develop new beliefs that will make you irresistible to white girls.
The most important thing to do in order to be successful in anything at life is to own up and take action. Yes, it’s obvious but to be successful with white girls you need to take action by approaching and talking to white girls. This will be the key thing to your growth in success with white girls. It will shatter your limiting belief that being Asian is holding you back. This will help develop a new mindset that you are an attractive person, because you’re going after what you want. Not only will this help develop your inner-self but also your outer portrayal to others since it will help develop your social skills with women.
So much can happen if you just go up and talk to girls. Soon with enough approaches you will know that it was not so bad talking to white girls. They do not reject you for being Asian, they rejected you because you lacked some form of social skills with women. Some of them are actually nice and appreciate Asian guys, but you would never have known if you didn’t talk to them. Once you internalize that it’s not so bad talking to white girls re-frame your belief in that being Asian will not hinder you in getting white girls. As an Asian male you need to learn some social skills and learn how to flirt with girls. This will be in a future post, but for now go out and start talking to white girls.
Here's AW hanging out with a few girls he met and what he was like in college.
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